Mary's Notebook
Issue 2: June 2006
Table of Contents:
1. Legion
of Mary Congress July 29
2. Our
Legion Wedding
3. How the
Legion of Mary Can Assist the Pastor
July
29 Legion of Mary Congress (Chris Miller)
The Tidewater Curia of the Legion of Mary will have a Legion Congress
on July 29th. The Congress will take place at St. Gregory's,
and
will last most of the day. Father Francis Peffley, Spiritual
Director of the Arlington Regia, will serve as spiritual director for
the Congress.
The Congress will have a theme of Duc et Altum (cast out into the
deep). The itinerary will be:
1. Mass
2. Welcome Talk
3. Session 1: Home Visitation: The
Preferred Work of the Legion
4. Session 2: Report
Furnishing: Being Adequate and Audible
5. Lunch (will be provided)
6. Session 3: The Prayerful
Legionary: The Essence of Spirituality
7. Session 4: The Difficult Road: When
Work and Prayer Become Hard
8. Benediction
Our
Legion Wedding (Chelyse Miller. Also published in Maria
Legionis)
Our wedding day, August 6, 2005, was full of happiness and
joy.
The ceremony began with praying the Rosary, as the Legion does with me
in the training room and Chris standing at the ambo with his groomsmen
beside him. As the Legion Altar stood in the midst of our
wedding
Mass, we could feel the love of so many friends and family, including
our entire active Praesidium, many others from our Regia, including a
number of auxiliaries present. We chose our wedding bands to
be
Rosary rings so that we would both keep Mary at the heart of our
marriage. During the dedication to Mary, we prayed the Catena
the
way our Praesidium does, by chanting it. Chris led, I
followed. The members from the Legion followed out loud with
us. At the reception, behind our table on the stage was a
large
Pilgrim Virgin Statue that seemed to be watching over us as we ate,
danced, and cut the cake. Mary had brought us together and
our
thought behind our wedding ceremony and reception was to honor her and
to worship her Son.
In July of 2002, Chris and I met for the first time at Theology on
Tap. I had just moved in with a Legionary and she had invited
me
to come to Legion (which I knew I wanted to join) but with the move I
told her it would not be possible yet but to give me a few
weeks.
She invited me to Theology on Tap with her and she had also invited two
other Legionaries (Chris being one of them). Through the
course
of the evening, he too invited me to a Legion meeting and this time I
was ready. So I started to attend the Legion meetings and
complete my works. Later on August 6, another Theology on Tap
was
planned and this would be our first date. As I grew to know
Chris
through our simple dates and the Legion I knew I was growing to love
him.
I went to a priest at my home parish and asked him what I could do to
continue in the relationship, as I should and not to be carried away as
so many young people are by something that is not love. He
advised me, without knowing I was in the Legion of Mary, to place it
into Mary’s hands and let her nurture us. We did
just
that. Our relationship grew the most within the Legion of
Mary. The more we grew closer to Mary and her Son, the more
we
grew towards each other.
One evening before Legion I was down because I felt the relationship
was not working. We had not prayed the Rosary together in a
while
(outside Legion) and we had not attended a Holy Hour
together. I
made a Holy half hour where I prayed that if we were meant to continue
our relationship that I wanted to say the Rosary with him again and
attend a Holy Hour with him. I went straight to the Legion
meeting from there and in other business, Chris asked everyone to come
to a Holy Hour with him after the meeting. Only his friend
from
the first night we met and I came, in thanksgiving this time.
I
left a little before he did and went home because I had work the next
day. About a half hour later he knocked at my door and asked
to
pray the Rosary with me. During the next Lent, we prayed all
the
prayers of the Total Consecration together (mostly over the
phone).
Our Praesidium nurtured us together. Most of our Praesidium
is
young (6 members including us being married within the last year), but
there are older and wiser members as well. We often would ask
the
members of the Praesidium, and the Spiritual Director for
advice.
We placed everything we did and said in Mary’s
hands. And
now, after performing works together, being officers together (and
learning how to submit to the President and the Legion, a skill
essential to marriage), and of course being members of the Legion
together, we have become one in our mission and purpose. We
have
continued our Legion works in a Praesidium in Virginia Beach.
But
the hardest thing for both of us was leaving our Praesidium, Our Lady
Queen of Apostles in Falls Church, which nourished us and helped us
grow with Mary’s help.
How
The Legion of Mary Can Assist the Pastor (Rev. Father Francis J.
Peffley --reprint)
The parish Legion group is intended to be the extension of the priest,
to be at the disposal of the pastor to do spiritual work that needs to
be done.
Perhaps the two most important canons for pastors in the 1983 Code of
Canon Law are numbers 528 and 529. These two canons describe the
obligations and duties which pastors have to the flock entrusted to
their care. At first glance, one is almost overwhelmed by the extent of
the pastor's duties. Yet there is in the Church an organization which
can greatly assist the priest in fulfilling these pastoral functions:
the Legion of Mary.
As a lay organization approved by the Church, the Legion of Mary is a
"pastoral tool" ready for use by the priest. Started in Ireland in
1921, it has developed and spread to almost every diocese in the world
and presently has a membership of some two million active members and
15 million auxiliary (praying) members. The local unit of the Legion,
termed a praesidium, is established in a parish with the permission of
the pastor and operates under his supervision. A praesidium usually has
a blend of six to twenty lay people who come together each week for
prayer, discussion, pastoral reporting and spiritual formation; they
then perform some apostolic work under the guidance of the spiritual
director (i.e., pastor, assistant, deacon, religious sister, etc.).
The parish Legion group is intended to be the extension of the priest.
Under his direction, legionaries perform two hours of apostolic work a
week, such as visiting homes of new parishioners, shut-ins and those
who have ceased to practice their Catholic Faith. Other works include
door to-door visitation within the parish boundaries, visiting
hospitals, prisons and nursing homes, running spiritual groups for
youth, teaching CCD, etc. In effect, the legionaries are at the
disposal of the pastor of the parish to do any spiritual work that
needs to be done. It is in this light that we turn to canons 528 and
529 to see how the Legion can assist the pastor in his many pastoral
duties.
The Code states that the pastor is obliged to see to it that "the word
of God is announced to those living in the parish." He does this
primarily through his homilies and other types of catechetical
formation, which he gives to his parish owners. Right away a problem
arises. What about those Catholics living within his parish boundaries
who neither attend Mass on Sundays nor participate in any parish
activities? It would seem that if the people do not come to the parish,
the parish must go to the people. Of course, the priests could never
visit all these people on their own, and yet the word of God must be
announced "to those living in the parish." This is where the Legion
comes in. The pastor, aware of families that have ceased to practice
their Faith, would assign two of his legionaries to pay a friendly
visit to them. Representing the pastor, the legionaries ask if there is
anything they can do for the family or individual and offer a warm
helping hand in the pastor's name. In this way, he can keep in touch
with all members of his flock and make sure their spiritual needs are
not being neglected.
The Legion promotes charity
The pastor is also to foster works "by which the spirit of the gospel,
including issues involving social justice, is promoted." These works
would include both the spiritual and corporal works of mercy such as
converting the sinner, instructing the ignorant, counseling the
doubtful, comforting the sorrowful, feeding the hungry, clothing the
naked, sheltering the homeless and visiting the sick and imprisoned.
For these works many parish organizations are needed which
facilitate the laity's obligation to practice works of charity. Many
parishes have programs to help feed the poor, shelter the homeless and
clothe the needy. The St. Vincent de Paul Society is an excellent
example. The Legion, focusing on the spiritual, offers the laity an
opportunity to visit the sick in nursing homes and hospitals, to visit
prisons, to instruct people in the Faith and visit door-to-door within
the parish boundaries. By promoting lay organizations like the legion
and the St. Vincent de Paul Society, the pastor is fulfilling his call
to foster works of service among his lay people. The Code goes on to
say that the pastor has to take "special care for the Catholic
education of children and young adults." He can do this by insuring
that there is a good adult-education course and CCD program in the
parish. The praesidium could aid the pastor in this area by encouraging
adults - both young and not so young -- to attend the adult-education
program. A special visit could be made to parishioners to invite and
encourage them to attend, and to insure that the children are enrolled
in either the Catholic school or the parish CCD program. Another way to
insure the Catholic education of youth is to have the Legion start a
Junior or Intermediate praesidium in the parish. Junior praesidia are
for children ages 8-13, and Intermediate groups for young people of
high-school age. These praesidia give young parishioners weekly
formation in both Catholic doctrine and the lay apostolate. The young
people focus primarily on visiting nursing homes and shut-ins.
Visits reach every parishioner
Next, the pastor is asked to "make every effort with the aid of the
Christian Faithful, to bring the gospel message also to those who have
ceased practicing their religion or who do not profess the true faith."
This is a monumental task, especially if the parish covers a large
area. Some pastors take this canon very seriously and visit homes
themselves. And yet, as individuals, they can only get to a fraction of
the homes within the parish boundaries. This is why the Code states
that he is to do this "with the aid of the Christian Faithful." There
are two ways in which the Legion can assist the pastor in bringing the
gospel message to both fallen-away Catholics and to those outside the
Catholic Church. First, the praesidium could host a Peregrinatio Pro
Christo evangelization project at the parish. A "PPC' is a one or two
week door-to-door visitation program which legionaries from
other
areas take part in. It is not uncommon for the legionaries to visit
3,000 homes in just two weeks of visiting. This is an ideal way for the
pastor to arrange for friendly visits to non-Catholics and Catholics
alike (while not costing the parish a cent). A vital aspect of the PPC
is to have the parish praesidium do the follow-up visits, which insures
that important cases are not lost sight of. The second way a praesidium
could help the pastor fulfill the Church's desire to come into contact
with every soul within the parish boundaries is to have "door-to-door
visitation" as a weekly Legion assignment. Many Legion groups are doing
this. A praesidium of twenty members guarantees forty hours of
apostolic work per week for the pastor. It does not take long for a
praesidium, which consistently does door-to-door visitation to cover a
large portion of the parish. In this way, the pastor can each
those who do not come to Church and those who do not possess the true
Faith. The second paragraph of canon 528 stresses that the Most Holy
Eucharist be made the center of the parish assembly. The pastor can
accomplish this through well-planned Sunday Liturgies, by encouraging
daily Mass attendance and by promoting Eucharistic Adoration and having
Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament in the parish. His legionaries can
promote all of these things on their visitations to Catholic families.
For example, some pastors have the Legion run "Perpetual Adoration
Chapels" in the parish. The members are in charge of encouraging
parishioners to sign up for a weekly Holy Hour, and of making sure
there are always adorers in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament. If
the parish has weekly or monthly Benediction, the legionaries could
promote this during their apostolic visits.
The pastor is then asked to see to it that the Christian faithful "are
nourished through a devout celebration of the sacraments and especially
that they frequently approach the sacrament of the Most Holy Eucharist
and the sacrament of penance." Regarding this, the pastor could have
his legionaries visit shut-ins and those in nursing homes, hospitals
and prisons, to ascertain their need of any of the sacraments e.g.,
anointing of the sick, Penance, Holy Communion, etc). The Legion
members also would help those they visit to prepare for a fruitful and
devout reception of the sacraments through prayer and conversation. An
important aspect of their apostolic work is to encourage reception of
the sacrament of penance which is much neglected today.
The pastor is to also encourage the practice of family prayer and bring
families to "a knowing and active participation in the Sacred Liturgy"
which he supervises under the authority of the Bishop, "being vigilant
lest any abuses creep in." The Sunday homily is his primary means to
foster prayer and explain the Mass. A secondary way is to have his
legionaries promote the Enthronement of the Sacred Heart and the
Pilgrim Virgin program in the homes they visit. By encouraging families
to honor Our Lord through the Enthronement and to pray the rosary
together during the week in which they have the Pilgrim Virgin Statue
in their home, the legionaries can help fulfill the Church's desire for
family prayer. In the familiar surroundings of the home, the Legion
members can also explain the Mass and Church devotions to families in a
personal way.
Canon 529 says that the pastor should:
…... come to know the faithful who have been entrusted to
his
care; therefore he is to visit families, sharing the cares, worries,
and especially the griefs of the faithful, strengthening them in the
Lord, and correcting them prudently if they are wanting in certain
areas. At first glance, this seems like an overwhelming request. Yet,
with a band of trained lay apostles as his right arm, the pastor can
fulfill this canon. By attending the weekly meeting of the praesidium,
the priest can "come to know the faithful" through the reports which
the legionaries give of their apostolic work. With the Legion members
visiting the majority of the families, the pastor would learn of the
homes that need a priestly visit. In this way, he could concentrate on
the families that personally require his presence and pay them a
pastoral visit himself. The qualities which the Code desires in the
priest should also be present when the laity visit families: a
willingness to share their cares, worries and griefs, to strengthen
them and correct them prudently if need be. Since the legionaries are
the extension of the pastor and act as his representative, they are
expected to take these words to heart and apply them on their visits.
The pastor is also to "help the sick, particularly those close to
death, refreshing them solicitously with the sacraments and commending
their souls to God." One of the great benefits of door-to-door
visitation is that the parish becomes aware of unknown sick and
close-to-death parishioners. Recently on a Weekend Evangelization
Project in Washington, D~C., an elderly Catholic shut-in was discovered
who had not been to the sacraments in over twenty years. The
legionaries informed the priest who visited the grateful woman, heard
her confession and gave her Holy Communion.
The Code says that a special effort should be made to seek out the
poor, the afflicted, the lonely, "those exiled from their own land, and
similarly those weighed down with special difficulties." Since its
beginning in 1921, the Legion has always had as its work the visiting
of the poor, afflicted and the lonely. An example of this is the heroic
work done by legionaries in Skid Row, Chicago, and in the many hostels
for the homeless started and run by the Legion throughout the world.
Some parish praesidia do street contact work in poor areas and seek out
the deprived men and women who live on the streets. Pastors, concerned
about those "exiled from their own land" have started Spanish praesidia
in their parishes to reach the increasing number of Hispanic Catholics
in their areas. Some Legion members are assigned to visit the growing
communities of Korean and Vietnamese Catholics located within parish
boundaries.
The pastor is also called to "labor diligently so that spouses and
parents are supported in fulfilling their proper duties, and he is to
foster growth in the Christian life within the family." Again we see
the Church putting great emphasis on the family, which is the basic and
most important unit in society. Therefore, to assist the pastor to the
highest possible degree, his praesidium will focus attention on
strengthening the family. The Legion has great privilege when it visits
the homes of parishioners. Spouses and parents are encouraged in their
duties toward each other and to their children, Church teachings on
marriage and the family are explained. For example, one of the works of
legionaries in South Korea is teaching married couples about Natural
Family Planning on their door-to-door visitations. This has met with
great success.
Lastly, canon 529 says that the pastor is to acknowledge and promote
"the proper role which the lay members of the Christian Faithful have
in the Church's mission by fostering their associations for religious
purposes." He is also to help the laity realize that they are members
of both the diocese and the universal Church. The Legion, then, and
other Church approved organizations should be promoted by the pastor
for they help enable the laity to fulfill their obligation "of
spreading the faith to the best of their ability" (Lumen Gentium, 17).
Associations like the Legion promote the proper role of the laity in
the Church's mission, which is to "bring the light of Christ to all"
(Lumen Gentium, 1). As a world-wide organization of nearly 2 million
active and 15 million praying members of varied races and
nationalities, the Legion helps its members to realize that they are
part of the Church Universal and gives them a means through which they
can be sanctified-a way of life which both develops holiness in its
members and supplies the pastor with an invaluable means of caring for
souls.